But Toyin's support for her husband's ministry had its limits. When he announced he had volunteerd to become a missionary in other West African countries,she adamantly refused to be part of the venture. There was a lack of wifely submission,with the mind of if you like,you can go ,I'm not in support of your ministry. (Sam working amongst the Ashigins and the Dukawas in Dogon-Daji) This would have been a joy to some women who would have thanked God for having a missionary-evangelist as husbands,better than a drunkard or ungodly person. She aspired to marry someone who is wealthy,who will be able to "carry her load". TAMING THE UNRULY BEHAVIOUR OF THE WIFE So far as a huge reservation,Sam ,after a very long period of time,beginning to cleave to the intermittent or better still the incessant unruly behaviour of hi wife. To some degree,both couple have matured considerably,a great deal over the years. As the popular proverb says: " If life...
